Maintaining separate homes has not proved an obstacle for British television actors Siobhan Finneran and Don Gilet. Their demanding schedules routinely keep them apart for extended periods. Finneran, 60, recently discussed their relationship arrangement as she returned to the BBC drama Time for its third season. Meanwhile, Gilet, 59, continues his prominent television roles.
The couple lives in different parts of England. Finneran is based in Saddleworth, and Gilet lives in north London. According to interviews published by The Times, Gilet spends significant portions of the year overseas filming the hit detective series Death in Paradise in the French Caribbean island of Guadeloupe. Despite the physical distance, Finneran has emphasized that their living arrangement reflects a normal routine they have followed throughout their relationship.
A Long-Standing Routine Built on Acting Schedules
Speaking in a previously published interview with The Times, Finneran offered a pragmatic perspective on time spent apart from her partner. She explained: “That’s just the way it is, isn’t it? That’s how it’s always been. And he’s out of the country for seven months a year doing Death in Paradise anyway.”
Finneran also revealed that she has traveled to the tropical filming location to visit Gilet during production, describing the island as an “amazing place.” Rather than viewing their separate residences as a challenge, the couple treats the setup as a practical accommodation for two busy working actors accustomed to managing independent schedules.
The actress quickly dismissed any media labels suggesting they are a glamorous “power couple.” She confessed that they can be entirely ordinary and disorganized when trying to coordinate everyday life. “We are both off the telly. Other than that we’re pretty normal. You wouldn’t think we were a power couple this morning, both running around trying to get out of the house on time. Hopeless,” she joked.
How Siobhan Finneran and Don Gilet Met
The pair first crossed paths professionally on the set of the ITV crime drama The Loch. During the production, Finneran starred as DCI Lauren Quigley, while Gilet played forensic psychologist Blake Albrighton. Their working relationship eventually transitioned into a romance around 2018.
Before confirming her relationship with Gilet, Finneran was married to actor Mark Jordon from 1997 until their divorce in 2014, and they share two children. Gilet has built an extensive television legacy of his own, starring in major British programs including EastEnders as Lucas Johnson and taking on leading detective duties in the Caribbean-set murder mystery series.
On-Screen Reunions and Mutual Support
Earlier this year, the couple’s professional worlds overlapped again when Finneran appeared as a guest star on the 15th season of Death in Paradise, playing a character named Fleur Edwards.
Appearing on ITV’s This Morning to discuss their on-screen reunion, Gilet playfully joked about Finneran’s acting presence: “She has come a long way. Have you not seen the stillness she’s created in front of the camera since being with me? There’s something-you can’t bottle it.” He added with a laugh that her performances carry a renewed confidence following their years together.
Frequently Asked Questions About Siobhan Finneran and Don Gilet
How long have Siobhan Finneran and Don Gilet been together?
The couple’s relationship began around 2018 after they first met while co-starring in the ITV drama series The Loch in 2017.
Where do Siobhan Finneran and Don Gilet live?
They maintain separate homes to accommodate their busy filming schedules. Finneran lives in Saddleworth, while Gilet is based in north London.
Why do they spend so much time apart?
Due to their demanding careers in television, the actors frequently travel for work. Don Gilet spends multiple months each year filming the BBC series Death in Paradise overseas in Guadeloupe.
Have Siobhan Finneran and Don Gilet ever worked together?
Yes. They originally met on the set of The Loch and later reunited professionally when Finneran made a guest appearance on season 15 of Death in Paradise.
Do they have children from previous relationships?
Siobhan Finneran shares two children, Joseph Seamus and Poppy Niamh, from her previous marriage to actor Mark Jordon.
